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You wake up in the morning, get dressed, head to work, work, then go home, and lie on your bed only to find another day unfolding right before your eyes. It seems like everything is in order, but deep inside, you know you feel lost. Have you ever felt like this? As much as we want to tell you it\u2019s okay, we know that isn\u2019t enough to make the feeling go away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first step to solving a problem is identifying and defining the problem. So, there\u2019s no better way to start your healing than to recognize and accept that you feel lost. Moreover, you have to understand where the feeling is coming from and be able to answer the question: \u201cWhy do I feel lost?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You\u2019re not pursuing your passion.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This is probably the most common reason for feeling lost. Some people were lucky enough to land their dream jobs. But life is not so easy for most people. Some of us didn\u2019t get the opportunity to follow our dreams, so we end up in a job that may pay well but can never satisfy our inner soul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that\u2019s when you start feeling lost. You question if what you\u2019re currently doing is really<\/em> worth it. You begin to wonder whether you would be happier if you pursued your passion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And then you are torn between staying on the familiar path or starting a new one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, muster your courage and follow your passion. The fact that you feel unsettled in what you\u2019re currently doing is a sign that change is required. Now, you don\u2019t need to dump everything all at once. This does not have to be an all-or-nothing situation. Make your passion a hobby or a side hustle at first. And slowly gauge whether this passion will help you thrive and be happy in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You want to do too many things.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes you feel lost because you\u2019ve got too much on your plate. You’re good at numbers, but you’re also good at art. You also want to be an entrepreneur, you can cook, you\u2019re interested in fashion, and you can write creatively. You are capable of doing so many things that you aren\u2019t sure which you should focus on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But how about we change that to: \u201cYou are capable of doing many things. You\u2019re not a mess; you\u2019re a multipotentialite.\u201d Yes, that means you\u2019re overloaded with potential and no, it\u2019s not a made-up word. Multipotentiality is a psychological term that refers to one\u2019s ability to have talents in two or more different fields.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re a multipotentialite, you don\u2019t have to choose a single path, you\u2019re supposed to explore all those paths with enthusiasm. You\u2019re destined to do many things, so take pride in it. Reframe your perspective and explore your potential!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You value the opinions of others more than your own.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A huge reason why people can feel lost is because they don’t see themselves as truly valuable, and rely on how others see them instead. For example, some people don\u2019t chase their passion because those around them say it won\u2019t be worth it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, they end up doing something they hate, but that those around them approve of. Which is terribly unhealthy. And the worst part is, even when you did what society dictated, society would still throw hurtful feedback at you. This leaves you feeling inadequate and in the end, the feeling of being lost returns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paying too much attention to what social media chooses to put in the mainstream is also something to avoid. Most especially, never try to measure your success and happiness<\/a> based on other people\u2019s definition of success and happiness. You must set your own definition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t have the right connections.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re lost in the woods, you could either try to find your way out or wait for someone to help you out. The same is true if you\u2019re lost in life. For the first three reasons, we\u2019ve been talking about how to find your own way out, but the truth is you can\u2019t solve every problem by yourself. Sometimes, you need a little help. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are people and connections that add negative pressure to your life, like those we\u2019ve mentioned in Reason 3; those are the ones you should avoid. Of course, there are also connections that you want to keep. Talk to close friends and family. For all you know, they’re also going through the same phase, or better, they may have gone through it and survived it. In that case, you\u2019ll gain a mentor or a life coach that can help you find your way. On the other hand, do your best to identify and remove the toxic people from your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s also another powerful connection that you might want to build and strengthen. You see, faith in a higher power is a wonderful source of guidance. And we say this not only from a religious standpoint, but also a scientific standpoint. Doctors and therapists have found that integrating faith and religion for patients with psychological and emotional turmoil is highly effective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t find a purpose.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Lastly, you may feel lost because you haven\u2019t yet found your purpose. In other words, you are suffering an existential crisis. It\u2019s actually a good thing! Wondering what your true purpose is in this world means you desire to do something momentous. Deep down, you want to leave a mark\u2026 a legacy. It\u2019s just that the \u201cfiguring out\u201d stage is comprised of countless confusions that can leave you feeling lost or like you\u2019re a failure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s really no better way to face an existential crisis than to take a breather. It\u2019s actually the pressure you\u2019re piling on yourself that\u2019s making you feel lost and restless. So, relax, be calm, your purpose will come to you. Keep waiting and exploring, and remove the pressure and fear of failure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still, with all these pointers, getting through this phase is going to be difficult. But it’s worth remembering that it’s “just a phase”. It will pass and you’ll find your way through. We know because you’re really trying. The fact that you’re here watching this video is proof that you’re taking steps towards freeing yourself from these moments of lostness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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