facts<\/a> and statistics, chances are, you will probably lose their attention pretty quickly. Instead, use real-life stories, and add illustrations to get your point across.<\/p>\n\n\n\nShare Both the Positives and Negatives<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
A common but fatal mistake that many people tend to fall for is that they only talk about the positives while sweeping the negatives under the rug as if they didn’t exist. It’s almost guaranteed that nothing in life is solely positive, and people won’t believe you if you were to say that your idea doesn’t have any downsides.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This will eventually lead to losing your credibility, something that is incredibly difficult to gain back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When we say share the negatives, we don’t mean just throwing them out there and leaving them at that. You have to explain how you will overcome those problems and navigate them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s a proven fact that people are more likely to be persuaded when they know both sides of the argument, and that’s something that should be highly considered when you’re presenting someone with a new idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Establish Credibility<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
We have previously mentioned how you shouldn’t lose credibility. So, it’s only human nature to wonder how one can gain credibility in the first place. Credibility isn’t something that can be earned overnight; it takes time, hard work, and incredible effort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Given that credibility and respect go both ways, you can’t expect to gain credibility and respect from other people when you’re not respecting them yourself. Respect is something that is earned on one condition; you have to give it as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Moreover, trust is another asset that plays a vital role in credibility. You have to make people believe that you’re worth their truth. Don’t be who’s all talk no action; prove your trust with actions so that people think what they see.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And, if you made a mistake, don’t shy away from admitting that it was your fault. Own it, fix it, and prove to people that you are trustworthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Know Your Audience<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
To know an audience is to understand their needs, values, and desires. People will respond better when they hear about something they can relate to. If you don’t know your audience, you won’t know the correct way to get your message across.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Successful persuaders know their audience, and they know them well. By doing so, they use that knowledge to speak a language that their audience can understand. If you’re talking to someone who is more on the shy side, toning down your assertiveness is the most effective way to speak to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On the other side of the spectrum, taking a more assertive or aggressive approach is the way to go if you’re talking to someone who’s the high-energy type.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Use Positive Body Language<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Body language is a helpful tool you can use in any conversation to add strength to your verbal message. Being aware of your gestures, expressions, and even your voice’s tone is essential for persuasion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example, if you talk with your arms crossed, people will perceive them as angry and defensive. If you avoid eye contact, they will think that you’re hiding something. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don’t stand still when you’re talking, they will see you as weak. Instead, use positive body language to reel your audience in and convince them that you have something worth their time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, uncross those arms, use an enthusiastic tone when you speak, and maintain eye contact to draw the recipients in and keep them engaged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Know When to Step Back<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Not knowing when to stop back is a detrimental mistake that people fail to recognize. Studies had shown that when you impatiently force people to agree with you, they will stand their ground even more– even if they were about to agree right before you tried forcing them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you have a strong position, there will be no need to force someone to agree. If you do so, those will immediately retaliate in favor of their own. As they always say, the greatest of ideas are the most difficult to process, so giving people time to process them will eventually benefit your own good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Related<\/strong>: How Selflessness and Leadership Go Hand In Hand<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nTake Yourself Out Of the Equation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
To be a successful persuader, you need to take yourself out of the equation and put yourself in your audience’s shoes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ask yourself how your idea can be beneficial to the other party, and why would someone listen to your thoughts instead of going with the other alternative? You have to let your audience know that you care about them and have their best interest in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don’t Be Aggressive<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Most importantly, not being pushy is easier said than done. There’s no doubt that people who are aggressive and use an in-your-face approach will cause others to backpedal and run for the hills the first chance they get.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You don’t want to come across as being too aggressive; you need to be confident and calm. All in all, if your idea is good, people will likely catch on sooner than later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n