{"id":2182,"date":"2020-12-13T16:59:46","date_gmt":"2020-12-13T21:59:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/snapreads.com\/magazine\/?p=2182"},"modified":"2021-07-18T17:31:50","modified_gmt":"2021-07-18T21:31:50","slug":"psychological-tricks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/snapreads.com\/magazine\/psychological-tricks\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Simple Psychological Tricks That Actually Work"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Understanding the many intricacies of human psychology<\/a> and using them to your advantage is one of the most powerful skills that you can put to use in your professional and personal life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With that in mind, here are ten simple psychological tricks<\/a> backed by science and sure to make a positive impact in your interactions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Getting Someone to Agree with You <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you tell someone something that you would like for them to agree with, one simple trick is to nod while you are speaking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nodding every now and again while you explain something to someone subconsciously affirms that what you are saying is true. Just be careful not to overdo it, and understand that this trick certainly won\u2019t work in all circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it can be an effective way to make what you are saying just a little easier for the other person to agree with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Probe for More Information <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you ask someone a question and they don\u2019t provide you with a full answer, try pausing the conversation for a few seconds and maintaining eye contact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In many cases, this will cause the person you are speaking with to feel pressured into saying more, which may lead them to elaborate on their previous response and answer your question more thoroughly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just understand that, by design, many people may find the silence and eye contact uncomfortable, so use this trick carefully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Make a Good Impression <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you want to make a good impression on someone that you have just met, one simple tactic is to repeat their name at various points throughout the conversation. Whether they realize it or not, most people enjoy the sound of their name.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Addressing them by their name during a conversation establishes a sense of familiarity that helps you make a more impactful first impression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Overcome Eye Contact Anxiety <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

For many people, eye contact is highly uncomfortable. However, maintaining an appropriate amount of eye contact is also essential if you want to come across as friendly and confident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you experience eye contact anxiety, one simple trick is to look between the eyes of the person you are talking to rather than looking them directly in the eye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The person you are speaking with won\u2019t be able to tell the difference, and you are likely to find looking them between the eyes to be much more comfortable than direct eye contact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Related: <\/strong>5 Books Every Leader Should Read to Be Successful<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fake it Until You Make it <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Did you know that smiling has been proven to lift a person\u2019s mood regardless of whether or not the smile was genuine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This means that you can essentially trick your brain into being a little happier at any given moment by merely faking a smile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a way, faking a smile to boost your mood is like sending a signal to your brain that you are happy at the moment \u2013 and it is a signal that your mind will often respond to by engaging the neural networks required to improve your mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ask People for Favors <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Benjamin Franklin once said that \u201che that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

From this quote, we get the name of a psychological trick called \u201cthe Ben Franklin effect,\u201d which says that asking someone for a favor is a great way to make them like you more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It may sound a little counterintuitive, but the psychology behind this effect is that people will subconsciously rationalize their agreement to help you out by assuming that they must like you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Father Knows Best <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you want to put a little authority behind what you say, claim that you learned it from your father. It doesn\u2019t matter whether or not the person you are speaking to knows who your father is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The tactic may be more effective if they do not. Right or wrong, people tend to attribute wisdom and authority to father figures, so stating that the information or advice that you are providing was first given to you by your father is a great way to give it a little more significance in the mind of others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mirror Body Language <\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Mirroring another person\u2019s body language during your interaction with them is an easy way to make yourself come across as more trustworthy. This is something that humans tend to do to some degree when interacting with each other without even realizing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t want to be overly obvious about it, but mirroring another person\u2019s body language by sitting in the same position as them or using your hands during the conversation in a similar way can make you come across as more trustworthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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